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Being tossed into the betrayal trauma is overwhelming. It can be hard to find resources. If you want more than a book, this is the place to go. These do not take the place of a therapist, but are great supplements. 

If you like listening to podcasts, you'll find my favorite ones here. 

Printables and blogs. 

"The Betrayal Bind" 

 "Living with a Sex Addict" offers a raw and insightful portrayal of the challenges, emotions, and complexities entwined in relationships affected by sex addiction. This book takes readers on a journey through the rollercoaster of emotions, trust, and the intricate dynamics of love and betrayal, offering understanding, support, and guidance for individuals dealing with the impact of a partner's sex addiction. It sheds light on the struggles and provides a beacon of hope for those navigating this difficult terrain. 

 "Out of the Dog House" is a practical and empathetic guidebook tailored for partners seeking to rebuild trust and heal relationships after infidelity. This insightful book provides a roadmap for the road to recovery, offering actionable advice, understanding, and tools to aid in restoring trust, fostering communication, and navigating the complexities of repairing a relationship post-infidelity. It's a supportive resource for couples aiming to move forward and rediscover a stronger, more resilient bond. 

 "TINSA: Trauma Induced Sexual Addiction" delves into the intricate connection between trauma and the development of sexual addiction. This insightful exploration sheds light on how past traumatic experiences can intertwine with the development of addictive behaviors, particularly in the realm of sexuality. The book offers understanding, awareness, and potential pathways to healing, addressing the complex interplay between trauma and the manifestation of sexual addiction. 

 "How Not to be an *ss" is a witty and straightforward guide that navigates the pitfalls of negative behaviors, offering practical advice on how to avoid being rude, inconsiderate, or offensive in various social situations. Filled with humor and relatable examples, this book provides valuable insights and tips on fostering better communication, empathy, and self-awareness to improve relationships and interactions with others. 

 "Moving Beyond Betrayal" is a compassionate and practical guide that assists individuals in healing from the devastating impact of betrayal. Through personal anecdotes and effective strategies, this book navigates the complex emotional journey, providing insight, support, and actionable steps towards rebuilding trust, self-discovery, and ultimately moving forward from the pain of betrayal towards a place of healing and growth. 

"The Betrayal Bond"  dives into the intricate psychology behind the emotional ties that bind individuals to those who have betrayed them. Exploring the dynamics of loyalty, trust, and manipulation, this book reveals how people can become entangled in relationships marked by repeated betrayals. Offering insights and strategies, it sheds light on breaking free from these damaging bonds and reclaiming personal agency, ultimately empowering readers to navigate healthier, more fulfilling connections. 

"Trauma Mama Husband Drama"   is a candid and relatable memoir that follows the journey of a woman balancing the challenges of motherhood, trauma recovery, and the complexities of her husband's drama. With humor and honesty, the book explores the rollercoaster of emotions, providing a heartfelt and unfiltered look into the author's life as she navigates the ups and downs of healing from trauma while managing the chaos of family dynamics. It's a story of resilience, growth, and finding strength amidst life's challenges. 

"The Life Saving Divorce"  offers a refreshing perspective on divorce, focusing on the potential for personal growth, empowerment, and positive transformation amid the dissolution of a marriage. This insightful book navigates the emotional complexities, providing guidance and encouragement for individuals facing divorce, highlighting the opportunities for self-discovery, healing, and the chance to create a fulfilling life beyond the end of a marriage. It's a beacon of hope for those seeking a new, empowered chapter post-divorce. 

"Intimate Deception"  delves into the intricate and painful world of deception within romantic relationships. This eye-opening book explores the various forms of betrayal and deceit that can erode trust and intimacy. It sheds light on the complex emotional toll of such experiences, providing insights and guidance for navigating the aftermath, rebuilding trust, and healing from the wounds of intimate deception. 

"The Body Keeps The Score"  is a compelling exploration of how trauma affects both the mind and body. Dr. Bessel van der Kolk, a leading expert in trauma, delves into the ways in which experiences of trauma can shape and manifest in physical and mental health. This insightful book offers a comprehensive understanding of trauma's impact, along with innovative therapies and techniques that can aid in healing and overcoming its long-lasting effects. 

"Why Does He Do That?"   is a thought-provoking book that dives into the complex patterns and motivations behind abusive behavior in relationships. Exploring the mindset of abusers, Bancroft offers insight into the various forms of control and abuse, shedding light on the reasons behind these actions. With a focus on understanding and empowering those affected by abuse, the book aims to provide support, guidance, and strategies for breaking free from abusive relationships. 

 "When Loving Him Is Hurting You" is a compassionate and empowering guide exploring toxic relationships' intricate dynamics. Through relatable anecdotes and practical advice, this book delves into the emotional toll of loving someone who is unable to reciprocate in healthy ways. Offering insights and strategies for self-care and boundary-setting, it provides a roadmap for reclaiming personal well-being and finding the courage to prioritize oneself in the face of relational challenges. 

 "Is It Me?" is an insightful and introspective journey into the complexities of self-reflection within relationships. Through candid anecdotes and thought-provoking insights, this book navigates the common doubts and insecurities that arise in interpersonal dynamics. Offering reassurance and guidance, it empowers readers to explore their own role in relationships, fostering personal growth, and healthier connections with others.

"Attached" is an eye-opening exploration of adult attachment styles and how they shape our relationships. With clarity and warmth, the book reveals how understanding your attachment style—whether secure, anxious, or avoidant—can revolutionize your approach to dating and love. Packed with practical advice and real-life examples, "Attached" is an essential guide for anyone seeking to build deeper, more fulfilling connections. 

"The Courage to Stay" is a compelling narrative that delves into the complexities of enduring love amidst adversity. Through heartfelt stories and poignant insights, this book navigates couples' challenges, inspiring readers to find strength and resilience in their relationships. With a focus on commitment, communication, and empathy, it offers valuable guidance for those seeking to weather the storms of life together and cultivate lasting, meaningful connections. 

"In Sickness and In Health" is a poignant exploration of the profound bond that sustains couples through the trials of illness. With compassion and wisdom, this book shares inspiring stories and practical advice for navigating the unique challenges of health crises within relationships. From the depths of vulnerability to the heights of resilience, it celebrates the power of love and commitment in overcoming adversity, offering hope and guidance to couples facing their most difficult moments together. 

"When All Breaks Bad" is a gripping tale of resilience and redemption in the face of life's darkest moments. Through raw honesty and unwavering courage, this book explores the depths of human struggle and the transformative power of perseverance. With heart-wrenching narratives and inspiring insights, it navigates the turbulent journey from despair to hope, reminding readers that even in our darkest hours, there is always the possibility of healing and renewal.